FOB Warning Ranting!

FOB is coming back to town, or so he says cause he gotta out of jail

he was telling me he wants to see quintin
then the next day said he wasnt sure quintin is his and wants a DNA test
I told him I wont pay for it, he can .. lol then he said court can pay for it
so I said "well thats good cause I'm already starting things so I can take you to court for child support"
and was like "no, dont I will get a job. pay every week"
bullshit

I'm still going to take him to court

I think if you need to go to court to get what you and your baby deserve, then go for it! The only thing that matters now is Quintin and if your fob doesn`t want to man up and take care of his child then its your duty as a mother to take action. I most definately support you and Ì`m sure everyone else does as well!

Id take him to Court , especially if hes going to be a Dink , Quintin Deserves the Best , and Its obvious its Not him, Hes lucky to have a mom strong enough to Fight for whats Right .

thanks lizard:) and Lil'bug
FOB told me he was gonna talk to me today again, well he didn't what a bitch! grr

I definitely think you should take him to court. He needs to take responsibility and if that's what it takes then go for it! From the sounds of it, Quintin deserves so much better than that arse. I agree with Lizardbreath, he's lucky to have a mummy who is willing to fight for what is right.

court wont pay for a dna he will have too! unless quin isnt his then u will have too. i tihnk thats how it works anyway. but take him to court if u want but if he says he wants to see quin then the court will allow him so much a week or every 2 weeks and then u cant say no...

jojo16 wrote:court wont pay for a dna he will have too! unless quin isnt his then u will have too. i tihnk thats how it works anyway. but take him to court if u want but if he says he wants to see quin then the court will allow him so much a week or every 2 weeks and then u cant say no...

yep my mom said worked that way too

Preggoeggo wrote:FOB is coming back to town, or so he says cause he gotta out of jail

he was telling me he wants to see quintin
then the next day said he wasnt sure quintin is his and wants a DNA test
I told him I wont pay for it, he can .. lol then he said court can pay for it
so I said "well thats good cause I'm already starting things so I can take you to court for child support"
and was like "no, dont I will get a job. pay every week"
bullshit

I'm still going to take him to court

Well, your in ON, I am in AB. I know that when I took Jarod's father I did not have to be there, I used Legal Aid (which was actually pretty cheap- payments like 25$/mo ) and they worked it all out for me. When I took him back again for re-assesment I went in and that was a meeting with a cort clerk, they loked at his new ROE's , paystubs and tax returns etc and said ..your making more, your paying more. He has no legal custody, but he pays child support. If he wants to go anywhere with him he needs my written permission, but I do not need his because he is not listed on the birth certificate. (I was smart..) Same as Aeron's father, I went to maintenance, gave them what information I had on him and they found him and started it all. Next thing I know I got a letter for DNA and a maintenance order to sign stating I was asking for it (maintenance). I again had to do nothing and still have not even seen him..no clue where he is at, if he's working or anything, they keep all your info and his from eachother and you just get money...

As for the DNA test, yes, did that too. Aeron's father asked for one, the Maintenence, or DNA place (can't remember which) sent me a letter saying it needed to be done, so I made an appointment where the letter said. I know that if he challenges your word, he pays for it. Not sure about the "oops it wasn't his, so now who pays" part...but I think it is on him or the courts to pay since he is asking to find out. (again if you asked for the test then you would pay)

Quintins father isn't on the birth certificate, just me

ughh this is the newest email

:Hey rome, well it a long story last time i was in ottawa i put a check
into my bank account and the bank called the cops on me. So i got
charged with theft and fraud. I have court on april 1 then i can leave
ottawa. How was the needles Quintin got...fun fun eh. Well i cant wait
to see him i'm lookin forward too. But ya thats why i had to come back
to ottawa to deal with my stuff. I was gettin pulled over in
st.catharines all the time and they told me i had to go to ottawa
because i had a warrant for my arrest here so i came and turned myself
in to the cops in ottawa.

ughhh i hate him lol

hmmmm, i think your doing the right thing by going throught court, just stick to your guns xx

Do u know he is the Dad ? Because if he is found not to be you can get into trouble for lying also why would u want money off a criminal